Maximalist vs minimalist
The great debate
For many of us, winter is a season of staying indoors, of organizing and decluttering. I find it fascinating how some love a clean, uncluttered look and others thrive on being surrounded by lots of things. Several months ago this was the topic for a prompt in my writing group.
Prompt: Are you an overbuyer or an underbuyer? A minimalist or a maximalist? Do you collect treasures or ruthlessly purge? Where do you land in the debate of more or less?
Minimalist or maximalist? Less or more? Many people probably fall somewhere in between or identify as a minimalist in some areas and a maximalist in others. Yet our natural tendency will likely gravitate towards one or the other. Both positions will manifest in two main areas - possessions such as decor and clothing, and lifestyle choices such as the effort you put into meals and special occasions.
It's easiest to tell which side someone leans towards by the number of their possessions. Lifestyle choices are a little more subtle. From my observation, someone who is a maximalist usually loves to shop and values special occasions. They are the ones who come up with (and own) the stunning decor at bridal or baby showers, take pride in an elegantly set table, and don't mind toiling long hours in the kitchen if the result is a beautifully plated or exceptionally tasty meal. For the minimalist, shopping feels more like a chore. Being with friends or family IS the special occasion, not the decor or food. Their meals might consist of two or three appetizing dishes and the table may not even have a centerpiece. They admire and sometimes envy other people's skill in pulling off gala occasions, but the effort it takes feels disproportionate to the fleeting nature of such events.
Each side has pros and cons. A minimalist might not have enough serving dishes for that holiday meal, but she likely has a maximalist friend to borrow from. Her cupboards will remain uncluttered and easy to find things in. The maximalist who collects vintage baskets, thrifted candlesticks, and Grandma's dresses will always have the perfect item to wear or decorate with. Her home will be filled with unique items that have sentimental value and make good conversation starters. The minimalist's home will bring a feeling of calm to occupants and guests. Cleaning is a breeze when there aren't objects on every surface or rooms filled with furniture. And how much money is saved by not buying a pair of shoes just because they're cute (but uncomfortable), books that you've heard of and want to read (but won't), and clothing that is fashionable (but doesn't look good on you)?
I love my semi-minimalist lifestyle. When we remodeled our kitchen, I had to pack up most of my cupboards and lived with only the basics for several months. I rarely missed what was packed away. When it was time to move into the new kitchen, the contents of several boxes never entered the cabinets. It made me look at all my other belongings with a critical eye. Did I really need decor for each season or could I keep it more timeless? Plants, a few carefully curated objects, and a nod to each season with two or three tasteful items are all I need. I've also been influenced by the year we spent following Jordan Page's Budget Boot Camp (cutting spending will teach you a lot) and the following books.
Cozy Minimalist Home by Myquillyn Smith
The Year of Less by Cait Flanders
Decluttering at the Speed of Life by Dana K. White
I love the bottom pic the most, but I also gravitate towards cosy coffee shop vibes at times... 😀
Is it not "Dana" K. White?
Unfortunately a major maximalist here. Wish I was the other way more.